Day #8

5-27-09

On the way to the clinic today I observed a father hugging his child. This is noteworthy because we have heard and seen so many facts about Ugandan men that are negative. It was encouraging to see a father showing his son affection. Not to sound stereotypical or pessimistic, but perhaps there is hope for Ugandan men, yet. (Obviously since Kate found Peter and we've met quite a few good Christian men on our trip).
I got to see Scovia again! I found out she is 14 years old and has six siblings, just like me. I find it interesting that the two girls I've befriended have been 16 (Esther) and now 14, when I have just turned 20 years old. But the more I think about it, it makes sense. After all, all the women my age are married with at least one or two children. Of course I am going to relate more to 14-16 year olds. It just breaks my heart to observe how difficult life is for the Ugandan woman. Helen, Dr. Patrick's wife, explained to our group how she believes this could change if only women received a good education. Both Ester and Scovia are on the right track since they are both currently in secondary school. I gave both of them my address, so hopefully I can keep in contact with them and perhaps even encourage them to go against the grain of their culture. I did tell Scovia to stay away from sex until she was married and she heartily agreed. I just don't want my friends to experience the difficulties most every other Ugandan woman has- they deserve so much more.